当心，中国式破产来临！
<p><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-s="300,640" data-type="jpeg" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FY0EVDHRTXrBL3icJPQhhgZScRCnBibSRuvfQfuemTKNFILTKP49clN701yBnlky7yYxePYfRf7UtZS3Sa9KPlmNg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" style=""></p><p style="text-align: right;"><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">来源：凤凰weekly（phoenixweekly）</span><br></p><p><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(60, 60, 60);font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: 0.544000029563904px;line-height: 25.5px;text-align: justify;white-space: normal;widows: 1;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><br></strong></p><p><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(60, 60, 60);font-family: 微软雅黑;font-size: 17px;letter-spacing: 0.544000029563904px;line-height: 25.5px;text-align: justify;white-space: normal;widows: 1;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">中产和无产之间、小康和赤贫之间，只隔一场病。在那之前，唯一能做的，或许只有多赚些钱，和好好锻炼身体。</strong></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section data-custom="rgb(225, 227, 226)" data-color="rgb(225, 227, 226)" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-style="color:inherit;font-size:16px;text-align:center;line-height:1.5em;" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">中产和破产之间、小康和赤贫之间，只隔一场病。</strong></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“警察领导, 我求求你, 别再查“假药”了行么。”</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我吃了3年正版药，房子吃没了，家也吃垮了。”</em></p></blockquote><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">《我不是药神》一上映就引燃舆论。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">电影中有一群白血病人，被药费掏空了家底。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">而后一个“药贩子”铤而走险，到印度买回了低价仿版药。他的药救了很多人的命，可是他却因违法，而被判入狱。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">里面，一位老人拉着“假药案”警察的衣袖，恳求警察别再查下去了：</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我不想死，我想活着，行吗？谁家没个病人，你能保证一辈子不生病吗？”</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="png" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_png%2FgpIXnvG5peQXp4vXJ9WKPVYic07k8pzPjNyRDibUJZcDWQdHoOO432g4WW6OaX3SU08yhicc6ZvXyxj3qxPhUqR8Q%2F640%3F" style="zoom: 0.888889;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width:auto !important;max-width:100% !important;height:auto !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">许多人是哭着从电影院出来的。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">与其说它只是电影、只是个故事，它更像当下社会的一面镜子。</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">谁家没个病人？</p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">可是买药贵，看病难。一场大病，就能拖垮一个家庭。</p></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="other" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_png%2F9WEn5LibLMvAoSUzCbCGWAqpDJBb4xC8MSK1iavsqugrDY72ZLCiciaNXXputqeEibicVag5eRgje6DHUwic3P4Pct2icQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dother" style="zoom: 0.888889;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width:auto !important;max-width:100% !important;height:auto !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">深圳63岁的林女士的儿子得了强直性脊柱炎，手术费需要30万。她没那么多钱，只记得自己有一份保险，一旦自己出事，保险公司就得赔20万。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">节俭了一辈子的她破天荒的花了十几块钱买了两份水饺，并留下了一封遗书，里面写道：“你放心，妈一定会帮你筹到那个治病的钱。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">吃完饺子后，她就从9楼的阳台纵身一跃，跳楼身亡。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">她走的时候内心一定非常满足，甚至是有喜悦的。因为，她用自己的方式为儿子筹到了20万，儿子有救了！</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">年迈的她，根本就不知道自杀是不能获得赔偿的，更不知道，那份价值420元的1年期意外险，早就过期了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">对于很多人来说，生一场大病就等于要了一家人的命。</strong></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">前些日，一个给自己买寿衣的14岁女孩，占据了各大媒体微博头条。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">她叫小周。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">小周抱着寿衣，从店里走出来时，她说：老板娘没收她钱，这个世界好人真多。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="__bg_gif" data-backh="274" data-backw="294" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_gif%2F9WEn5LibLMvDszBRBuOb9NXUxspztCaSdYzGqkrssla6AcMWaC9v2ibwiciaPpYYuDXSmlBlibPkd5icuX68Pw00D5Hw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dgif" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="gif" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_gif%2F9WEn5LibLMvDszBRBuOb9NXUxspztCaSdYzGqkrssla6AcMWaC9v2ibwiciaPpYYuDXSmlBlibPkd5icuX68Pw00D5Hw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dgif" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 590px !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">小周有再生障碍性贫血。近期病情加重，急需造血干细胞移植。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">可治病这些年，家底已空。60万手术费，她爸妈还在筹钱，但小周想放弃了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">6月20日，她从医院偷跑出去，买了寿衣。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">“我要是死了的话，我爸就不用这样为我奔波操劳了。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="" data-backh="265" data-backw="496" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/9WEn5LibLMvDszBRBuOb9NXUxspztCaSdDMicTFPgoKDL0ziapt1NN2Vowu79Dx4ibiadUyTibc9CpR7nnlZdRhZF36g/640?wx_fmt=other" data-oversubscription-url="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/v47VJMmp3gG0YFu15iaWCOkW59ia9PfYWTib7ny9JBrM57csCxQh6F0ZSJpkR60Kz9Qo56ia02Zevwjmxv55OeqGAA/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="jpeg" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2Fv47VJMmp3gG0YFu15iaWCOkW59ia9PfYWTib7ny9JBrM57csCxQh6F0ZSJpkR60Kz9Qo56ia02Zevwjmxv55OeqGAA%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 590px !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">小周的父母从没想过放弃。但女儿的“懂事”，让他们无比心酸。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">小周的家，是无数普通家庭的缩影。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">他们温饱无虞，或许还有些积蓄。可是，一场病，就能把他们拉下深渊。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">治还是不治？</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">无论怎么选，都是错的。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">中国式悲剧：一人大病，全家判刑</strong></span></p></section></section><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">网友 @明月清风3263108 曾经分享过自己的故事：</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2005年，我人在内蒙古，妈妈突然得疾病。</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">医院劝我们放弃治疗，一是因为治疗费得六七十万，我们拿不出钱；而是因为就算治了也不一定能治好。</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">爸爸跟我说明了情况，让我把钱打回去就行，人不用回来，继续等消息。</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我给爸爸打过去钱，一个人在大草原跪下，不停地给老天爷磕头，大声求他救救我妈。</em></p></blockquote><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">对于很多人来说，生一场大病就等于要了一家人的命。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">知乎上有篇回答，不是高赞，也不是神回复，只是赤裸的真实。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">答主叫雨瞳，她的外公外婆、两个舅舅，还有父母，都在东北某央企工作。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">有一年，外公确诊鼻咽癌。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">自此后10年，她目睹了3个子女的家庭，从小康滑落至贫困线。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">她的小舅，请长假带着外公全国奔波，只为就医。大舅为了赚钱，申请到中东工作。她妈妈做后勤，用三姐弟的名义，向单位借钱。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="" data-backh="246" data-backw="541" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/dev6iacP3uqxPlicMPqDogoibkLbls6VLlaUZ7B1CkdkzuRhaz2FaDjiagJYB2Vl2A7LMUO2L6glo51Fib9scr2IU1A/640?wx_fmt=other" data-copyright="0" data-oversubscription-url="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/v47VJMmp3gG0YFu15iaWCOkW59ia9PfYWTynzKm2N0of3qtlIBIld9CRDZJaRbyDFUicfgO2IiafKskXyrQocrDvAQ/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="jpeg" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2Fv47VJMmp3gG0YFu15iaWCOkW59ia9PfYWTynzKm2N0of3qtlIBIld9CRDZJaRbyDFUicfgO2IiafKskXyrQocrDvAQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" style="box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;width: 590px !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">外公的病拖了2年。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">他走后，3个子女家底空空，负债累累，很多年没缓过来。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">直至今日，雨瞳工作了，拿工资了，还在帮妈妈还债。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">后来，她妈妈常对她说，以后自己若患重病，不要治。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">对于普通家庭而言，一旦有人生场大病，动辄几十万、上百万的医疗费用，基本上一个家就垮了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老中小三代人，一人重病，全家连坐。即使多年衣食无忧，大病面前，都可能一夜回到解放前。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">患病爷爷自杀，只为省钱救6岁孙子！</strong></span></p></section></section><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">最近又看到两则令人伤心的新闻，一则是：杭州的“一名患癌父亲不愿吸氧，只为多给女儿省两块钱。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">这位爸爸是一名出租车司机，开了20多年夜班，2015年起身体开始不舒服，但一直拖着不肯去。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">就这么拖了几年，病重住院时已确诊是肝癌晚期，吃不下饭，呼吸急促。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">可面对刚刚踏入社会的养女，他却强打精神。“我看他呼吸困难，让他吸下氧气。他总说气能透过来，不用。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">几个月后爸爸病情加重才向女儿吐露实情：“我总希望给你多省两块钱用用。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">女儿哭着说，可是一小时氧气费才四块钱啊。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">另一则是：在6岁的凡圣确诊急性髓性白血病后，患糖尿病的爷爷自杀了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">“我死了以后，我的钱都是留给孙子看病用的，你们谁也别抢。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">凡圣爷爷66岁，有糖尿病。十几年来，老爷子很配合治疗，吃药打针，从不含糊。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">可在孙子确诊后，家里20万存款，很快花完。从那时起，爷爷不再给自己买药了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老人东奔西走，又借来了50万。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">那日凌晨，爷爷出了门。早上5点，天蒙蒙亮，有人在小区花园，发现了上吊身亡的老人。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img align="middle" class="" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="other" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2Fdev6iacP3uqzT3ab3q1JJ23NicMScqYm0cGccs2uicmcyKTUcCZHU4d4TkWVFibf06VGZ2pfMcfq6wicHRulmMBGqCw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dother" style="zoom: 0.888889;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width:auto !important;max-width:100% !important;height:auto !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">病床上的小凡圣，还不知道爷爷已经“走了”</span></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">爷爷去世3个月，小凡圣在医院，也转了几次鬼门关。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">家里外债70多万。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">凡圣爸妈，以前在私企。孩子生病后，妈妈辞职了。后来，爸爸因经常请假，被公司辞退。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">家里的车子、首饰、一切能变卖的，都卖了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">医生说，凡圣的病很复杂，情况好的话，还要大几十万，才可能治好。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">“我们也想卖房子，但是小产权房，不好卖，以前没注意过，谁想过有一天要卖房。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">凡圣妈妈满目愁容地说。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">有房有车的中产，抵不过一场流感</strong></span></p></section></section><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">年初，《流感下的北京中年》横扫朋友圈。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">事件主人公，是北京中产，生活中游偏上。有车有房有投资，还有几十万流动资金。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">这家人的岳父患了流感，在ICU住了三周。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">两万多字的长文，让我感觉害怕的，是看到这些的时刻：</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“ICU的费用，大概每日8000-20000元”</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“上人工肺后，开机费6万元，随后每天2万元起。”</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“如果在ICU要呆很长时间，只能卖掉北京的房子。”</em></p></blockquote><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老人在ICU撑了20几天，还是去世了。读到这里，无比沉重，又替他们松了口气。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">这家人已经考虑卖房了。若再久一些呢？</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">文章引燃了中产群体的焦虑。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">它戳破了人们的中产幻觉，无情地告诉人们：中产和无产之间、小康和赤贫之间，不过只隔一场病。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">谁敢说自己永远碰不上大病？</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><section class="" style=""><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">父母宁可死，也不愿给孩子添麻烦</strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p></section></section><p style="">早年间，台海网曾做过调查：若母亲重病，你肯花多少钱？</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">调查共计400个样本，84.13%的市民表示，他们愿意“用尽资产”，来挽救母亲。其中还有65.08%的人，不惜倾家荡产、负债累累。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">这是个明知终会“人财两空”，却还想做的选择。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">马末都说过：“当你的亲人得了绝症，你所做的选择都是错的。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">大病，像悬在家庭头上的剑。剑落下，便是一场金钱与命运的较量。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">据卫生部数据，人一生患癌几率，高达36%，而罹患重疾的几率，为72%。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">在“一场大病，就能消灭一个中产家庭”的下坠焦虑里，人们活的毫无安全感。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">所以，在中国，这是一个普遍现象：中国式父母，哪怕自己行动迟缓，病痛交加，夜不能寐，也舍不得给儿女添麻烦——他们太明白了，一旦麻烦，可能直接要孩子们贫困交加。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">前不久，一位身患癌症的70岁老母亲为了不拖累子女，在深山里静静地结束了自己的生命。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">对于这位老人来说，活着是比死亡更需要勇气的事情，而体面且孤独地离开，是她能带给子女最后也是最伟大的爱。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-type="other" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2F95vPWyVZiaHx8pIic1eC6XEnPYc5AMUlZFunNPI91VOOl3gU4QSLjzFSWLnyYpF5e35vMP69HKBHd6Y7qprogEYg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dother" style="margin-top: 10px;margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: currentcolor;display: block;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: auto !important;" width="auto"></p><p style=""><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">去世老人儿子的朋友圈</span></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">张泉灵去养老院采访，发现每一个老人身上，都有股老人味儿。于是就问了其中的一位老奶奶，多久洗一次澡。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老奶奶说：“我尽量不洗澡。我们这个年龄，一个人住，洗澡是很容易出事。一个不小心摔倒了，要是就这么去了，倒还好。要是把自己摔瘫了，残疾了，成植物人了，那儿女下半辈子，就被我给耽误了。我不能连累了孩子，所以我尽量不洗澡……”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">为了不给子女添麻烦，他们宁可自己忍受不适，而一旦“不小心”生了病，给子女添了麻烦，他们就会手足无措，万分懊恼。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">温州的涂先生母亲患上了肺癌晚期。为了不拖累子女，她留下了一封诀别书后，带上安眠药离家出走，最终在山间的一处隐蔽的草丛间服药身亡。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">在诀别书中，她写道：不想连累孩子，让孩子别找她了。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">去年，南京的一位81岁的独居老人在家中去世两个多月后被发现。她在遗书中写道：</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><blockquote style=""><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">“我于昨晚（农历八月十五）走了，走时心如止水。</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">当你接到通知回来办丧事，首先将床头柜中钥匙放在身上，再让小跟用水拖干净地面，浮灰不能扫，而后用湿抹布擦玄桌椅凳上的灰尘，开窗通风不会染病。最后再打开橱柜和抽屉整理东西……</em></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">遗体速火化，一切从俭。”</em></p></blockquote><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老人走的时候，正是阖家团圆的中秋节。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">老人直到生命的最后一刻，仍在担心子女的身体，叮嘱他们要“开窗通风以免染”病；而老人直到生命的最后一刻，仍怕给子女添麻烦，嘱咐儿女“一切从俭”。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><img class="" data-backh="750" data-backw="526" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="0.66796875" data-s="300,640" data-type="other" data-w="auto" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_png%2F379vzqrE49aiaCnfVNHMLDh4fibFhEffKZnyLWk3Dn4hT8UUbhlIJ7wicqdP9RtVsLmLJ9IEDDe3nuRlLticc7FB5w%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dother" style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 587px !important;" width="100%"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">近年来，老年人的自杀率越来越高。目前每年至少有10万名55岁以上的老年人自杀死亡，占每年自杀人群的36%，老年人已成为中国自杀率最高人群。<br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br data-filtered="filtered" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">而在这些自杀的老人中，最常听到的一句话就是：“我不想给孩子添麻烦，不想拖累孩子。”</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">曾经听过一句话：“中国人的信仰最伟大，那就是：活着。”活着难吗？真的很难。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">尾篇</strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">国家癌症中心数据显示，2017年，中国229.6万人死于癌症，平均每13秒，就有一人因癌症而死。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">加之其他疾病，人这一生，罹患重病的概率不低。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">大病如果没发生在自己身上，就是发生在亲人、朋友身上。我们难免要面对这一天，面对那个可怕的选择。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style=""><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">中产和无产之间、小康和赤贫之间，只隔一场病</strong>。在那之前，唯一能做的，或许只有多赚些钱，和好好锻炼身体。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="">愿风浪后的家庭，都有山重水复的柳暗花明。</p><p style=""><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p>愿谷底中的生命，都有道尽途穷的绝处逢生。</p>
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