我见过情商最低的行为，就是不停地讲道理
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="" data-backh="321" data-backw="500" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/BCpKAM8JRhibto3yxxRfDnzkcAicLnGCTyTkYbq4oce18PzUnV29bm6QPNcOd1Jle8gb0QKFK32SPMPRfLXBQccg/0?wx_fmt=jpeg" data-ratio="0.642" data-s="300,640" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FBCpKAM8JRhibto3yxxRfDnzkcAicLnGCTyTkYbq4oce18PzUnV29bm6QPNcOd1Jle8gb0QKFK32SPMPRfLXBQccg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="500" style="width: 100%;height: auto;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(59, 59, 59);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">作者：粥左罗</span></strong></span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(59, 59, 59);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">来源：粥左罗（ID：fangdushe520）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">最近我对“情商”这个词有了新的理解——<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的人，原来最不讲道理。</strong>迫不及待的想分享给大家。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这篇文章不长，我找了几个角度，分别来跟你聊聊为什么高情商人都不讲道理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">看完记得转发给你那爱讲道理的他，以及你别再跟你妈讲道理了，如果你在公司做管理，也少讲那些大道理。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p class="" style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box 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100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">情商高的老板</span></strong></span><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">少和员工讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p class="" style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">梁宁《纸牌屋》都跟我们不一样，她看完学到一点：</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">管人的本质，就是管理情绪。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">克莱尔一路辅佐伍德，直到当上总统，她永远知道如何管理伍德的情绪。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如第一集，伍德被他一路扶上马的总统耍了，他在街头闷坐一天，回家后，克莱尔应该干什么？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">给他安慰，给他讲道理？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">NO，她直接刺激他，让伍德将桌子上的东西扫到地下摔碎……</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这是干什么？让伍德的情绪快速到达顶点释放。然后，递给他一支烟，让他站在熟悉的窗前。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">伍德呢？他的对手都是高智商生物，讲道理、PK 逻辑，伍德肯定赢不了，但是他懂得抓住他们的心理，每个掉进伍德坑里的，都是输在情绪上、心理上。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">梁宁说：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">反思我当年创业的时候，管人的能力很差，因为我只会一招——讲道理。这就是情商低啊情商低。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我朋友在一家新媒体公司上班，说特别烦：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">老板特别喜欢开会，一开会就特别喜欢讲道理，讲道理上瘾，让我们学习某某公司，说人家公司晚上都加班到凌晨……你给我多少钱啊，我给你加班到凌晨……</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，那个老板天天讲道理也没用，大家到点就下班走人。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">可你想想，马云当年带领 18 罗汉创业，不光工作环境差，还工资低，又天天加班，可是大家还是不愿意离开。为什么？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为马云情商高啊，他能把人都搞得很嗨。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的老板，不跟员工讲道理，聪明的老板讲故事，善良的老板讲 KPI，讲利益分配。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 12px;color: rgb(178, 178, 178);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">当然，对于那些只讲故事画大饼的老板，我想把张小龙的话送给你：我劝你善良。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">另外，别以为天天讲很多道理，能帮多大忙。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不能讲道理么？能。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">讲一遍，他懂了。他去做，说明他信。他不去做，不是他不懂，是他不信，你再 BB 十遍他也不信。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那怎么办？<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">让他自己去撞南墙，让他去犯错，去经历，然后他就懂了。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">时尚芭莎的前执行主编说：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">世界上最无效的努力，就是对年轻人掏心掏肺讲道理。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><section data-id="86134" 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255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的父母少和孩子讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box 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100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">管人就是管情绪，管理其实无处不在。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人与人相处，其实就是在管理对方的情绪，而管理情绪，最好不要通过讲道理来实现。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">前段时间知识星球社群里有个星友提问：</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">粥老师好，请教一个问题。我女儿上初二，个性外向，喜欢吹牛，智商中上水平。但没有上进心，读书积极性不高，成绩在班上和全校是中上水平，父母的管教没多少效果，请问如何突破，争取有所成长和进步。谢谢你。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我说：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">别过多管教，你说的那一套一套的道理，学校各科老师说的还不够多么？父母把控制欲降低一点，少讲道理多去爱。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">1）</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你看到的不一定是真的，初中的孩子都很叛逆，即便内心有上进心，也不愿意表现出来。按我的记忆，那个阶段的我们，以展示不求上进为酷和潇洒。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">2）</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">初中的学业并不轻松，没上进心，读书积极性不高，感觉很难把成绩维持在中上水平吧。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3）</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">爱吹牛，这个不知道怎么定义。我高中时说要考到北京，我大学时说我要留在北京，毕业后我经常说以后我要在北京买房子，我要创业怎样怎样……我妈老说你这孩子怎么老吹牛……后来，我想做啥时都不愿意跟我妈说了……<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">说不定你以为的吹牛，正是她有追求有上进心的表现。</strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">4）</span></strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你女儿成绩不错，已经很优秀了，少管教，多赞美。成绩中上，性格开朗，还没有学坏，对这个阶段的孩子来说，挺好了。按这节奏走下去，不会差。有条件的话，寒暑假多带出来旅行，看看更大的世界，体验过更好的东西后，她自然想追求更好的。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">反过来说，我们也不要老跟父母讲道理，否则也情商太低了，你讲不通的。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我刚毕业那会儿，我的爸妈经常想说服我让我考研、考公务员。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">一开始我会跟他们讲道理，为什么我包括我们这样的家庭不适合考研、考公务员，之前我写过一篇文章就说了，公务员可能是最不适合穷人家的孩子做的工作。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我也可以把知进退和边际效益这样的东西讲的通俗易懂，但是他们能听懂就会理解你么？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不会的，因为观念不同、立场不同，价值观不同。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">而且他们“爱你”、“为了你好”......</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，我每次高高兴兴的回家，吃完饭就要不高兴地吵一会儿，我讲各种道理来论证。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实最后我说服他们了，他们也只是表面被说服，心里还是固执的认为自己是对的，不然为什么下次又劝你一番？好像上次白讨论了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">和父母讲道理，太特么情商低了。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">那怎么办呢？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">他们说，你乖乖听着就行了，非争那个干啥。然后剩下的，你全力以赴去用行动和结果证明你按你的路径走是对的，大家皆大欢喜。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">父母最终希望的就是你有个好的结果，过的好。当你没有、过的不好时，他们当然会按照他们的经验想给你指一条路径，他们没有错。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但是当你用自己的路径走出一条路来时，他们看到你好的结果，自然也不会去干涉了。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以后来我就不跟父母争了，我拼命按照我的想法去努力，让他们看到，我可以有体面的工作，体面的收入，有开心的生活。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在他们再也不说我了，因为他们看到了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><section data-id="86134" data-tools="135编辑器" style="white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word 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70);display: inline-block;width: 1.8em;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;border-radius: 100%;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(197, 63, 70);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">3</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的爱</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我最见不得一种事：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">在北京熙熙攘攘的地铁站里，看到一对情侣大声吵架。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我觉得女生都很要面子，你在公共场合这样吼太特么不是人了。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以每次看到，我都恨不得过去跟傻逼男的说：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">她只是需要一个拥抱，你这个傻X却跟她讲道理。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人家跟你谈恋爱，你特么跟人家讲道理：<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">讲道理要你干嘛，不如去看书。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，恋爱里面更多不是“对与错”，而是“爱与不爱”。老是讲道理的恋爱不会长久，因为虽然你对，但你不够爱。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的爱，要少讲道理，多哄她。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">结了婚更不能老讲道理，否则你们家，除了吵架就是冷战，尤其是没钱的时候。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我小时候在农村学到一个词叫“穷叽歪”，就是越穷的两口子，越爱吵架讲道理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">过穷日子的时候互相扶持，过富日子的时候互相信任，这里面靠的都不是道理，而是爱。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">中国人好客，出于礼貌在外面不会轻易释放自己的情绪，却喜欢回到家里跟自己的亲人讲道理，一言不合就吵架，两个人情商都低，互不相让，最后就变成互相讲道理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">但道理其实是永远讲不清的，<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">这就是家庭矛盾激化的源泉。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以，讲个啥道理——</span><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(171, 25, 66);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">讲道理，请对外人讲，对自己人，讲感情就好。</strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><section data-id="86134" data-tools="135编辑器" style="white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89189" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="87848" data-color="rgb(228, 0, 127)" data-custom="rgb(228, 0, 127)" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%;line-height: 25.6px;widows: 1;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(197, 63, 70);display: inline-block;width: 1.8em;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;border-radius: 100%;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(197, 63, 70);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">4</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的人</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不跟傻X讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">前几天，我在知识星球里说：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">做公众号三年，内心柔软了，因为遇见了太多的爱。内心也变硬了，因为经常遇到下图中的留言，不管你做什么，总有人骂你。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-copyright="0" data-ratio="1.2" data-s="300,640" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FqicHLaUZniblOSSXAs9ibF82ljSttRsY2PxdvTiaoPOQvEickfkv6GOVfBrnVs6BPVgBamEaVKLpM9eGL3FabrD7Gjg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="1125" style="border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(0, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 481px !important;visibility: visible !important;" width="481px"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">记得刚入行时候，运营一个 50 万的大号，自己也在上面写文章，评论区里什么人都有，大家在网上口无遮拦不用负责，所以经常有那种不和谐的声音。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我每次看完都会忍不住回复，给他讲道理，有时候碰到杠的，我们能来来回回说十条，气的吃不下饭，晚上刷着评论区睡不着觉。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">现在回想起来，真的是情商低啊。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人家就是来恶心你的，你还一本正经的跟人家讲道理。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实不光是运营公众号，生活中工作中，我们也经常遇到傻逼，千万不要跟他们讲道理，他们本来就想拉你下水，你别真上当。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的人，会把时间花在喜欢自己的人身上。对讨厌的人，不浪费一点生命。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><section data-id="86134" data-tools="135编辑器" style="white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89189" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: 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!important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-top: 3px;margin-bottom: 3px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;text-align: center;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section class="" style="margin-right: auto;margin-left: auto;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(197, 63, 70);display: inline-block;width: 1.8em;height: 1.8em;line-height: 1.8em;border-radius: 100%;font-size: 18px;color: rgb(255, 255, 255);background-color: rgb(197, 63, 70);overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">5</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的人</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">不跟朋友讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我们刚才说了，不跟傻X讲道理，为什么跟朋友也要不讲道理？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">其实是从另一个角度讲。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友之间出来吃个饭、聊个天，最怕你喜欢杠，一杠就情商低了。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">朋友就是出来一起放松一下，聊天大部分也是互相吹吹牛扯扯淡，本来很多话就是经不起细细推敲和严密论证的，结果你老是跟打辩论赛似的，动不动就揪住一个点想给大家讲道理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">你讲的对又怎样，你让朋友们不开心呐。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大家是出来玩的，不是出来听你讲课的。</span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="white-space: normal;"><br></p><section data-id="86134" data-tools="135编辑器" style="white-space: normal;font-size: 16px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89189" style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box 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style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box;min-height: 1em;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">6</p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">情商高的人，不讲道理</span></strong></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;text-align: center;line-height: 1.5em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 16px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为他懂人性</span></strong></span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">高情商的人，为什么最不讲道理？</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">因为他们都懂一个更底层的道理，这也是我从梁宁老师那里学到的：</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人非机器，人有情绪。人与人的相处，充沛的道理是最没趣味的部分。真正让人和人的关系有机互动的，是情绪，彼此能挑动情绪，就是对眼了，就是气味相投了。</span></strong></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">大多数情况下，你和你的爱人、同学、朋友、同事，都有类似的知识背景、经验背景，这种东西都有一定的圈层属性，也就是说，这个圈层里的常识性的道理和逻辑，大家都懂，用不着你讲。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">比如老板给员工讲的大道理，其实员工大部分都懂，听得耳朵都起老茧了。</span></p><p class="" style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">人的底层操作系统是情绪，一个人由情绪构成，靠情绪驱动。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="color: rgb(171, 25, 66);"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">所以高情商的人，手里把玩的不是道理，而是情绪，他们善于观察、管理双方的情绪，让双方都舒服，让关系趋于持久共赢。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 27.2px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 0.5em;margin-left: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;font-variant-numeric: normal;font-variant-east-asian: normal;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;widows: 1;line-height: 1.75em;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">我见过情商最低的行为，就是不停的讲道理。</span></p><p style="font-size: 16px;white-space: normal;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 25.6px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;text-align: center;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">— THE END —</span></p><p style="white-space: normal;text-align: center;"><br></p><p style="white-space: normal;text-align: left;"><strong><span style="font-size: 13px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);">* 本文来源：</span></strong><span style="font-size: 13px;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);">公众号 @粥左罗，作者粥左罗，前插坐学院副总裁，90后首席新媒体讲师，学习社群@粥左罗和他的朋友们 发起人。一年写100篇干货，服务50万互联网人，汲取向上的力量，逃逸平庸的重力，转载请联系原作者授权。</span></p>
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