哥哥成富豪弟弟成穷人，互换人生后，发现决定命运分水...
<section><section powered-by="xiumi.us"><section><section><section class="_editor"><section class="_editor"><section class="_editor"><section class="_editor"><section class="_editor"><p><span style="color: rgb(160, 160, 160);">来源：《精英说》（ID：elitestalk），转载已获得授权。</span></p><p><br></p></section></section><section class="_editor"><section><section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">如果你有一个哥哥，你和他从同一个老妈肚子里出来，从小一起长大，是这世上血浓于水的亲兄弟，可成年后你们却过起了“天上地下”的生活，这是一种怎样的感受？</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">对于这个问题，常年开着房车到处流浪的英国底层老百姓大卫，可能最有发言权。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="354" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uwEUmf3WNTDdtkd2icDbxI2aaWVRJeLRFIKiaXX4DK5eYgicgYFZh713sQ/640?wx_fmt=png" 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16px;">不过他本人倒挺想得开，认为在底层待着没啥不好，无拘无束嘛，一人吃饱全家不饿。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="372" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uaqC2TyHB96uJSIKTJWrkE641nULialHYpfHlQrtTicPZdZvCuoic71AKg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uaqC2TyHB96uJSIKTJWrkE641nULialHYpfHlQrtTicPZdZvCuoic71AKg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="887" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="556.8388888888888" data-ratio="0.6268320180383314" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHexvsZk7L4Qz11yMNrheKicibBiciaya1y5iawtAYKlXHnhuCictBznNpw3SzQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="887" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">大卫眼中的“上层”，大概就是他那身家千万的哥哥伊凡。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">“金融界精英”、“保守党政要”是外界给他贴的标签，而在记者询问资产数量时，只会微微一笑：“无可奉告”。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="351" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uibbH11BeRngiaDxzuzLePvFjVdAMEXgp8pSSJ562A77E5y98oCVBWQIA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uibbH11BeRngiaDxzuzLePvFjVdAMEXgp8pSSJ562A77E5y98oCVBWQIA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="912" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="533.6888888888889" data-ratio="0.5844298245614035" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeCeAXKNowwfn67xicDcm1h2NYsMgTrrVkyH9Qd3MdUCoO0acyPclTsbQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="912" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">一个是富豪，一个是穷人，很难想象这两个风马牛不相及的人竟然是亲兄弟。但事实的确如此，只是在过去25年来，个人财富与社会地位的巨大差异让他们越走越远。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">他们谁都无法理解对方，隔阂渐深。要不是连着一层血缘关系，可能早已成陌生人。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="360" data-backw="540" 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16px;">有好事的英国媒体，专门给这两兄弟拍了个纪录片，还别出心裁地搞了个“变形计”，提出让他们住进对方家里8天，看看是否能缓解兄弟俩紧张的关系，或是带来什么改变。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">这就是《富哥哥 穷弟弟》要讲述的故事。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><section><p><br></p><section class="_editor"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#b9fadf;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#ffeaaa;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#faadad;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#91deff;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="margin-top:-5px;"><section style="border-width: 1px;border-top-style: solid;border-color: #4c88d6;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;"><strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;">命运的分水岭</span></span><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;"></span></span></strong></p><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;"><strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;">无法磨灭的偏见</span></span></strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;"></span></span></p></section></section></section></section><p><br></p></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">兄弟俩不同的命运，可以追溯到童年。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">哥哥伊凡比弟弟大卫年长一岁，两人都出生于一个普通家庭，父亲是警察，妈妈是银行小职员，家里没啥存款，但尚能养活孩子。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="355" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uN8jleMQt9yYRtNaIKmL2Q6xV55VaX1rrSqs9v3qCKGoMKzrj1wQu9Q/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uN8jleMQt9yYRtNaIKmL2Q6xV55VaX1rrSqs9v3qCKGoMKzrj1wQu9Q/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="903" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="540.1277777777777" data-ratio="0.5968992248062015" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHebS70UcdiaJAVRzicIKiaicnpkC8OJDEeyFE2ib0Fs0iaabQEddRiae0icedYAw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="903" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">兄弟俩小时候都吃着差不多的食物，穿着差不多的衣服，上着差不多的学校，唯一不同的是，由于大卫是弟弟，所以被格外宠爱。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">伊凡犹记得当自己大一些，需要早起送报纸修草坪赚些小钱补贴家用时，大卫却依然可以睡大觉，然后享用母亲准备的餐点。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="368" data-backw="540" 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style="font-size: 16px;">”</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">如果要说大卫实在做了啥，无非就是些破坏公物、卖小黄书来赚香烟钱的“蠢事”。</span></p><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="365" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uf0hRN037bJyPVL69jv4YfiawpUWeF2zvH34p3MDicZkIDjqGpgzykDoA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uf0hRN037bJyPVL69jv4YfiawpUWeF2zvH34p3MDicZkIDjqGpgzykDoA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="914" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="560.2481481481482" data-ratio="0.612691466083151" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeWH1qpt80QOxyaKV5R88z4AnTfWKrHLibjyicZ2afrciaWtYyv2GE3Z9mA%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="914" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">但因为大卫是弟弟，所以总能得到父母特别的优容与宽待。想起小时候父母总是护着弟弟的场面，伊凡心里很不是滋味。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">但正如那句俗语“惯子如杀子”，过分的纵容无疑给大卫带来了不可磨灭的负面影响。小时候的调皮捣蛋变成了成年后的游手好闲，很早就承担养家糊口责任的哥哥伊凡，反而被锤炼得独立能干，极富商业头脑。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="372" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uIzmrVaKJribdpuxNSBv1rgRfkDMc64PeiaDVV8LeP72qoe6QkCTjzUBA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uIzmrVaKJribdpuxNSBv1rgRfkDMc64PeiaDVV8LeP72qoe6QkCTjzUBA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="882.9999999999999" 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16px;">他们的人生分水岭，可能就是从那时开始。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">哥哥的事业越做越红火，弟弟则眼红于哥哥迅速积累的财富，不甘心只做个打工者。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">为了能像哥哥那样“一夜暴富”，大卫尝试过各种各样的职业，但总是三分钟热度。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="356" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uwsP23o9EkjCUYxic3jZm2tYTmBUBGCzQxZaFRcNREoERjI9icibza8r2A/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uwsP23o9EkjCUYxic3jZm2tYTmBUBGCzQxZaFRcNREoERjI9icibza8r2A/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="914" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="546.7074074074075" data-ratio="0.5984682713347921" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeUq5vo8MyAjyl1AeC66aFkFEibiaE7jBdIB6dEAh730sy6SQvxYHs8I5g%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="914" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">久而久之，大卫开始自暴自弃，他变得愤世嫉俗，“富人有什么了不起的？不就是靠着吸穷人的血吗？” 在镜头前，他不止一次地表达了对哥哥和他的巨额财富的反感。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">好像跻身富豪阶层的哥哥，令他恶心想吐。</span></p><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="357" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97up4jVVtnD4DqkibghuPYzuLrWls7zmlzgXuSiaCcwvZGeqGmJH5XZFAYw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97up4jVVtnD4DqkibghuPYzuLrWls7zmlzgXuSiaCcwvZGeqGmJH5XZFAYw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="908" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="543.1185185185185" data-ratio="0.5980176211453745" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeNRGR6Ib5hrBV0RayS47haiaPwXOOhUhUpRPq7ogy3Of81TvOEbHmYoQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="908" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">对于弟弟的现状以及对自己的偏见，哥哥心知肚明。他觉得，如果当初弟弟能够脚踏实地地干好一份工作，比如在工厂当修理工，而非好高骛远，境况会比现在好很多。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">可惜历史从来都不存在假设。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">已步入而立之年的弟弟，就这样日复一日地沉沦了下去。他没有结婚，没有孩子，唯一的谋生手段是到建筑工地干苦力，唯一的栖身之所是一辆破破旧旧的房车。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="359" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uk9e3L7yuic4lF5d6vC6iaOqpqeGRCMO7HuDDZdxXTErFgdiaCib8jzjIfg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uk9e3L7yuic4lF5d6vC6iaOqpqeGRCMO7HuDDZdxXTErFgdiaCib8jzjIfg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="890" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="535.648148148148" data-ratio="0.601123595505618" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHe1BmgDPJfahSCkZjx95VyPjlAIjq1lNAJVg8UmPNjticzNEic1mcYGtzw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="890" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">而哥哥则努力地开拓着更大的商业版图，并试着在政坛发出自己的声音。他购置了若干座豪宅，仅出现在纪录片中的，就有伦敦的四层联排别墅、东苏赛克斯的13世纪古宅以及巴塞罗那上流社区的假日公寓这三所。</span></p><p><br></p><p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">两人的日常，早已是天壤之别。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="363" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uyYFnAvWW4ibkbLPiaFZEpjtwWLP95CtL7Tu5fvxcYBuWibNQHLDN4Wgkg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uyYFnAvWW4ibkbLPiaFZEpjtwWLP95CtL7Tu5fvxcYBuWibNQHLDN4Wgkg/640?wx_fmt=png" 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src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeGqBB1TpF5vfv0o3QiaGib6HBf2qpQajkdlPvnExsL9vMUH7ic0ZkwWhiaw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="908" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">哥哥想不通弟弟为何不能找一份稳定工作，告别漂泊的生活；</span><span style="font-size: 16px;">正如弟弟对哥哥的致富之道深恶痛绝，讽刺哥哥是“虚伪的资本家”。</span></strong></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">整整25年，两人独处的时间不超过两天。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">在重重误会与偏见中，改变似乎是一件异常困难的事。直到持续8天的“变形计”完成，两人多年以来的心结才稍稍有了松动。</span></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br></span></p><p><mpcpc js_editor_cpcad="" class="js_cpc_area res_iframe cpc_iframe" src="/cgi-bin/readtemplate?t=tmpl/cpc_tmpl#1555494067823" data-category_id_list="1|11|15|16|17|22|24|26|27|28|3|31|32|35|36|37|39|40|41|42|43|44|45|46|47|48|5|6|7|8" data-id="1555494067823"></mpcpc></p><p><br></p><section class="_editor"><section style="text-align: center;margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;"><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#b9fadf;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#ffeaaa;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#faadad;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="display:inline-block;margin-left:10px;width:5px;height:20px;background-color:#91deff;transform: rotateZ(30deg);-webkit-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-moz-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-ms-transform: rotateZ(30deg);-o-transform: rotateZ(30deg);"></section><section style="margin-top:-5px;"><section style="border-width: 1px;border-top-style: solid;border-color: #4c88d6;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;"><strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;">体验8天对方的人生</span></span><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;"></span></span></strong></p><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;"><strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;">亲兄弟版“变形计”</span></span></strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;"></span></span></p></section></section></section></section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">当哥哥不得不在弟弟的房车待上8天时，他的内心是崩溃的。房车的空间逼仄，而且没有洗澡如厕的设施。推门进去还乱糟糟的。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">“这个真的太恐怖了，我有点想哭。”</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="351" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uBbxXTkH9KQ6b1uAuex1NVTKjgAEnMUbtyGRRl8U7ztJSKQtyenuY1w/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uBbxXTkH9KQ6b1uAuex1NVTKjgAEnMUbtyGRRl8U7ztJSKQtyenuY1w/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="902" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="519.4851851851852" data-ratio="0.5764966740576497" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeGD7MNydQGTGwiaicuAlogx4UeOXQibibkzN9ldfurWSJ9BdMC0rO6DiaIWQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="902" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">当伊凡硬着头皮在房车里吃完弟弟所做的半生不熟的羊排之后，弟弟主动提出要带哥哥感受一下自己的日常活动，哥哥欣然应允。其实他也是十分好奇，弟弟怎么就不能好好找份朝九晚五的工作，他每天到底在干嘛。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">“他应该有个房子，有个正常的家，真的。”</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="357" data-backw="540" 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style="font-size: 16px;">首先是自由散漫。弟弟告诉哥哥，次日上午十点，他在某个市民广场有个新书发布会，说是发布会，其实就是摆个街边小摊卖卖书。那么弟弟卖的书是什么呢？是一本自费出版的根据吸毒嗑药经历写成的小说。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="360" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uqj6bo9ujqRIhyYR9N5ziccg2zOMeCVfDBlaGR4Y0icI8zAWLnmSH7Aicw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uqj6bo9ujqRIhyYR9N5ziccg2zOMeCVfDBlaGR4Y0icI8zAWLnmSH7Aicw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="916" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="554.6888888888889" data-ratio="0.6048034934497817" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeQpGDquUMaqfySuExyzzXEIoG4fvicLFaSjibcyJKmmLDpepqbhaTgRZg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="916" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">当哥哥看到穿着明黄色西装的弟弟晚了一小时才出现，他觉得有种一言难尽的荒唐。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">现代文明社会对一个公民提出的正常要求，比如在公开场合露面着装的得体、守时等等，弟弟心里似乎没有这样的概念。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">这也是哥哥认为弟弟所缺乏的高度自律。</span></p><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="355" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ugZNZnWdQiarSQd7f11ZQ5ZA5ca9icLGAAOsTcIQKpynj1F5Z7LTmsqPQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ugZNZnWdQiarSQd7f11ZQ5ZA5ca9icLGAAOsTcIQKpynj1F5Z7LTmsqPQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="918" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="544" data-ratio="0.5925925925925926" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeiaW39r46ZhoqxHhbpewJqGLtcqTSQ3jiaQI6mEHPofT5qooh7VhlJXOQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="918" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">其次，他的精神世界是荒芜的。在政治方面，弟弟有着自己的一套见解，他嘲弄英国奉行的现有社会体系，认定其终将瓦解。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟定期会参加一些政治聚会，在会上与各种拥有极端思想的人们讨论。随行的哥哥一脸懵圈地看着这些人夸夸其谈，却发现他们的观点论据与实际情况相距甚远。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">比如有些人谎称自己的政治见解在大宪章里有条款明列，但当哥哥一提出质疑，那人连最基本的事实都搞不清楚，开始支支吾吾。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="350" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uOlbGRibfUgAPfRL9JgvlbpIaom3JJ7we1mkOgKq2x1CcttwS0bsyFRA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uOlbGRibfUgAPfRL9JgvlbpIaom3JJ7we1mkOgKq2x1CcttwS0bsyFRA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="908" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="524.6222222222223" data-ratio="0.5781938325991189" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHetgjET4oO9ZdkRDL9Nw0NibpCYlBFZehlFvDxZGED47uPVZTohun8y8w%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="908" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">“我想不出这种脱离现实的古怪言论有何意义。” 哥哥苦笑着，他也终于了解到其实在底层，拥有类似想法的人不在少数，他们不满于现状，便强烈地抨击现实，否定一切。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟也处于这样一个圈子里，耳濡目染。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="345" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ubFpnTAGiaMbBvA4GxoK9SaxeFxAqLtdeGOQZNYTPRXdibe5Ly34ExlzQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ubFpnTAGiaMbBvA4GxoK9SaxeFxAqLtdeGOQZNYTPRXdibe5Ly34ExlzQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="913" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="507.2222222222221" data-ratio="0.5553121577217963" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHe1icUZRYc54X4dj5D9wCzRHW7lIGQHsxic3CkzOgahEibUXhdoX5picUR4w%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="913" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">那么他们所支持的是什么呢？比如弟弟就对“小行星连成一线毁灭地球”深信不疑，并表示只有当世界毁灭，国家才能得到救赎。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">与之相比，政府、政党、资本家、社会制度之类的东西不值一提，都是浮云。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="377" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uCraXe0my9F9pGHbGt7KyRicibYXBc054Up2vAX0wKklPGwVdOibJQ6rbw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uCraXe0my9F9pGHbGt7KyRicibYXBc054Up2vAX0wKklPGwVdOibJQ6rbw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="910" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="576.3333333333333" data-ratio="0.6329670329670329" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeWhIfavTuic706HZDqazWvvHu20IjUia4ibP7xVUBqWRJeosA1Bz7sUWow%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="910" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">眼见弟弟成日里沉迷于此，哥哥终于明白，原来对某些人来说，没办法找份稳定的工作、过正常的生活也不能全怪他们自己。当你坠入一个文化圈层，不受影响真的很难。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">唯一让哥哥欣慰的，是弟弟做泥瓦工赚钱的时候。虽然做的是辛苦的活计，但踏实做事的弟弟，精神面貌无疑更加积极。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="362" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97u5hZFaKiciaaOiaULoMicSZKcLicNYyGwQicCiaUicJ4GIjFm5E1u5qiaaPpSHHA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97u5hZFaKiciaaOiaULoMicSZKcLicNYyGwQicCiaUicJ4GIjFm5E1u5qiaaPpSHHA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="901" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="543.937037037037" data-ratio="0.6026637069922308" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeF8DhzDJ1sfe9pNMx366gUstRAfxwQZs2MPfmUFEaQUvYmhoW08XAdQ%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="901" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">可想到弟弟不愿改变的观念，信奉的歪说邪理，哥哥极其担心。“但这就是他的世界，我不忍拆穿。” 哥哥面向镜头，一脸无奈。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">8天的走进弟弟生活，让他对弟弟所处的环境更加了解，他找到了弟弟“自甘堕落”的秘密，现在，只好开始期待弟弟能在走进自己生活之后，产生些许新的改变。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="355" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uQIeeRx9xRUBjD2aNurgBhDMlKVFGJ3dRiac5wdrViaU0icVKCXf6jhelw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uQIeeRx9xRUBjD2aNurgBhDMlKVFGJ3dRiac5wdrViaU0icVKCXf6jhelw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="909" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="538.6666666666667" data-ratio="0.592959295929593" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHepP8UTroft0MBd0WFO9pO2ZBaT0ckprUsS8LfX8MzoW2e7ZtZkiaZaQw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="909" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">事实上，当弟弟第一天住进哥哥的豪宅，就和哥哥大吵了一架。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">原因是哥哥对节目组坦白，这些年自己一直在暗中帮衬弟弟，前后花了不到10万。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="358" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uUIvQdBX5V8HbqKrjnNkY64GNwq9JvVTU3pluz2EmMhoqoS2QvmeGfw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uUIvQdBX5V8HbqKrjnNkY64GNwq9JvVTU3pluz2EmMhoqoS2QvmeGfw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="915" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="543.9166666666666" data-ratio="0.594535519125683" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHerDibG9OmwlnqXia6pqI9ehicibrfPsOy1dltyZJC7TDG1ib75tk7EtPqv7g%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="915" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">这样的说法让弟弟愤怒，他跑来质问哥哥，你什么时候给我花钱了？我想买艘船，你给我买了吗？弟弟还提出，哥哥总有办法掩盖财富，让自己看起来没那么富，“可却让每个路过的人相形见绌，觉得自己很穷。”</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">在气势汹汹的谩骂中，哥哥保持了沉默。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="356" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97usuZL1ReS2P51l8DvaQ0okP9U4qGqMyc0mdxE009tvG0Zibvva8Ph8Zg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97usuZL1ReS2P51l8DvaQ0okP9U4qGqMyc0mdxE009tvG0Zibvva8Ph8Zg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="921" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="535.5444444444444" data-ratio="0.5819761129207384" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeiahlj61t4Frq8C7peeMnNYJD5SBO7pkU0nWqWuILlVibO3sw3tUxAic9A%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="921" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">事后他才偷偷告诉节目组，之前弟弟生病或欠钱，都是自己和老妈商量着给他暗中搞定，但弟弟只是相信主观感受到的一切，其实哪怕问一下他们的母亲，都会知道真相。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">但哥哥不想为自己争辩什么，觉得没意义。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="365" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ujicmicymkPibWiaibB00ozE8Iheq6IwypMx0Vicdn6jH8L4ojBzkpXBpTfGA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97ujicmicymkPibWiaibB00ozE8Iheq6IwypMx0Vicdn6jH8L4ojBzkpXBpTfGA/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="907" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="554.2777777777777" data-ratio="0.6108048511576626" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHelE8DvDibqI2mIUPbMqML5F0icAyYqepSxicrNwl0HTAo3iaHe2P9BcRBsg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="907" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">兄弟俩的僵持在一次精英派对中有所好转。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">就像弟弟带着哥哥参与到自己的日常中来一样，哥哥也带弟弟做了自己平常会做的事，比如出席上流社会晚宴、会见各个圈子的佼佼者、参加慈善艺术展、进行马术训练等。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">让他意外的是，弟弟比想象中做得好太多。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="367" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uJDy4OLnibldNBelUdlAgQnLM1pBoIJBlekUDibVUl72Z2ecF9kr6RucQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uJDy4OLnibldNBelUdlAgQnLM1pBoIJBlekUDibVUl72Z2ecF9kr6RucQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="897" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="553.15" data-ratio="0.6164994425863991" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHepecrLc66UQh2wg34KNViaIOEibVqYicCw2upYQu6nJATk31Zk6sd44hhg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="897" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">在精英派对中，弟弟与各路有头有脸的人物侃侃而谈，他收起了自己一贯奉行的激进思想，开始认真聆听一些主流的价值观。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">在慈善艺术展中，对艺术极其感兴趣的弟弟终于找到了向人求教的机会，他甚至亲自动手做了一些可爱的小玩意儿，出色的创造力和想象力获得了在场许多人的好评。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="370" data-backw="540" 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16px;">大卫很聪明，学习马术也是一点就通，反应能力超快的他很快就策马奔腾了起来。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="343" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uBuo88a5ibp6Xz7nbGS91Y5HrZYRR7ALs9PLicvkLa3j4PZYY8XCqZFSw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uBuo88a5ibp6Xz7nbGS91Y5HrZYRR7ALs9PLicvkLa3j4PZYY8XCqZFSw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="931" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="534.462962962963" data-ratio="0.5735767991407089" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeKjecRt8QU2Mx1RYNNMicC2DpR2cs92N3VKyRXs49gusu4icXiaf9t2Oicg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="931" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">在哥哥日常所处的环境下，弟弟像变了一个人一样，他一改过往颓废萎靡的风气，兄弟俩之间的感情也亲厚了许多。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">哥哥发现弟弟并不是一无是处，他身上有众多隐藏极深的闪光点，只是缺少一个好的环境，让他充分发挥人性中向上的一面。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="366" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uRmbNHRv1th8FSwY2vHO1dfvuzCukVXwB6K5icdibfYaEsEaLWd0W82lQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uRmbNHRv1th8FSwY2vHO1dfvuzCukVXwB6K5icdibfYaEsEaLWd0W82lQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="912" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="557.3333333333334" data-ratio="0.6107456140350878" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHewZRzrBjty5HlPpAANYjhoaM5tFTBRgWcE3WYPkA08OFBm40nQTAh1A%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="912" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟也看到了哥哥同时要安排好工作、社交、慈善、爱好等各方面的事务，所谓“虚伪的资本家”也并非不劳而获地吸血，财富与成就背后，多的是辛苦的耕耘与付出。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="357" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97udlym79JOWzcenq42gOMElYS3deo2FElrL2wDfYEXKBdnxqSMcec2Yg/640?wx_fmt=png" 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style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="363" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uHLibIKias055HSn2n8jfwwhsc2U1wg6uqqrcLIsjoWNNFibgSHPh4kLHQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uHLibIKias055HSn2n8jfwwhsc2U1wg6uqqrcLIsjoWNNFibgSHPh4kLHQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="897" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="548.1666666666666" data-ratio="0.6109253065774805" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHePEcLvDSiaBZFodUvq7lwEAVpH7ib3RRic2YWdLN8lbld60JK3CYpd65zg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="897" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">两次体验感截然不同的交换，先让双方的误解与隔阂加深，又在无形中消融了坚冰。不管结果是好是坏，长期的陪伴终究可以化解彼此在对方心中长期臆想的那个形象，回归真实，正视问题，就是好转的开端。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">交换结束，他们时隔多年久违地给了对方一个拥抱。“你挺不容易的。” “你也是。”</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">兄弟俩回归了各自原本的生活，看上去一切如旧，但我们知道，一切也有所不同。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="358" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uYk2mEopAhHu8131ktoWLV6iaDlo1joZvGciaOx1Ey6FsOBI18LDILyfQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uYk2mEopAhHu8131ktoWLV6iaDlo1joZvGciaOx1Ey6FsOBI18LDILyfQ/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="911" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="546.6000000000001" data-ratio="0.5993413830954994" 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#4c88d6;padding-right: 5px;padding-left: 5px;display: inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;"><p style="letter-spacing: 2px;"><strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;">鸿沟究竟由何铸就</span></span></strong><span style="color: #002f6c;"><span style="font-size: 16px;text-align: justify;"></span></span></p></section></section></section></section><p><br></p></section></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">《富哥哥 穷弟弟》是一部很有意思的纪录片，它其实是想探讨英国的阶层分化问题，只不过选取的角度比较温和——亲情。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">而当我们看完纪录片，除了感叹于兄弟情深，也会唏嘘于两者人生轨迹的巨大差异。鸿沟的存在，往往有迹可循。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="371" data-backw="540" 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16px;">首先，兄弟俩过去几十年一个最大的差别就在于到底是夸夸其谈还是脚踏实地。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟整日抱怨着政府的阴谋、社会的不公，甚至选择信仰天文宇宙那一套学说来解决现实问题，表面上振振有词，实则一窍不通。他相信的很多理论都没有现实的依据。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="364" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uB8nYluc3tUNNwfia2zNsYz1Ct8tyBMib3OI0DdUdP2xTLj29oJQhFKAw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uB8nYluc3tUNNwfia2zNsYz1Ct8tyBMib3OI0DdUdP2xTLj29oJQhFKAw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="896" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="550.8740740740741" data-ratio="0.6138392857142857" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeHgjPYGicKad4RMAQweDu0MZAAShiasNKomYywP58BtLUDySOsOn1zxHw%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="896" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">反观哥哥，即便在富裕起来以后也秉持着从小被“逼”出来的勤勉工作的习惯，生活中的各件事情被他安排得井井有条。他也在做实事的过程中塑造了自己的三观，从而能以坚定的态度抵制各种荒诞信息的负面影响。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="356" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uQKuQuvH4njHL5FibdShw7ymw7AOibibmKNVicExeoT8V2icKvfhgG802UyA/640?wx_fmt=png" 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16px;">哥哥所处的是比较主流的精英文化圈，精英云集，谈天说地，彼此博采众长，交谈之中相互尊重，气氛融洽；而弟弟则深陷一个反社会与反主流文化的环境，并以此为乐，更糟糕的是，他身边还有许多志同道合之士，他们排外而固执，缺乏参与现实的意愿。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="351" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97utibcSwE2W1ItiarUufOdH0HxyGVI7h22ICACPSVlHe6YibfmOtwMXB2yg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97utibcSwE2W1ItiarUufOdH0HxyGVI7h22ICACPSVlHe6YibfmOtwMXB2yg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="908" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="533.0296296296297" data-ratio="0.5859030837004405" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHexnOaKtzeUDQiaH4BpnNibBia9hDWSbSLMic74T7CBkxhWle89LFNhgBp9w%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="908" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">处于特定环境中的某个人，要做到“出淤泥而不染”真的太难太难，由此，一个好的环境对人的塑造作用就显得格外重要。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟可以在哥哥所处的良好环境中找到自身优势与闪光点，也充分证明了这一点。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="373" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uJZZ9zETEUW1DWeWa20RYXPFVyicM7H0DicUS0vLlkFgthdtANwZkFicJw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uJZZ9zETEUW1DWeWa20RYXPFVyicM7H0DicUS0vLlkFgthdtANwZkFicJw/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="898" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="562.0814814814814" data-ratio="0.6258351893095768" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeUhxVTV9zH3ZiakPy62SFibLiblz0atug7PSR1R2zHia6rQvQdnqfVUzbFg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="898" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">第三点不同在于“兼听则明，偏听则暗”。</span></strong><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">弟弟易怒而主观，更愿意以自己的态度去衡量世界，他可以嘲弄哥哥的身份与财富，也对哥哥“从不关心自己”显得怒不可遏，却从来不去认真思考，真相究竟是怎样。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="360" data-backw="540" 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16px;">而哥哥对万事万物则保持了冷静客观的态度，他深知一个道理——“旁观者清，当局者迷”，有时被弟弟气到，也会选择退一步询问第三方的看法，不轻易被情绪牵着走。</span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><br></p></section></section></section><section><section><p style="text-align:center;"><img class="" data-backh="353" data-backw="540" data-before-oversubscription-url="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uwCrqrGXA7KCxvdNn6clDhTxsDQaTDyrlD1qdGOQovF7hb6iaqnB0KVg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-croporisrc="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/nYvjjmtGz3M1m3rWrJpyAk0H13CsT97uwCrqrGXA7KCxvdNn6clDhTxsDQaTDyrlD1qdGOQovF7hb6iaqnB0KVg/640?wx_fmt=png" data-cropx1="0" data-cropx2="907" data-cropy1="0" data-cropy2="534.1222222222223" data-ratio="0.5887541345093715" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FoYWImhVzibqxa5TaWgmePxd8cdTYVhDHeJtN1UMn5eEM74v51bicicM1J49yFgMaibHX5zbTUsJeiaHibzUYIibMmt7Mg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="907" style="vertical-align: middle;width: 540px !important;visibility: visible !important;"></p></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"></span></p></section></section></section><section><section><section><p><span style="font-size: 16px;"><br></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">一贫一富兄弟俩的区别，是一个生动的缩影，展现了贫穷与富裕之间的复杂议题。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">鸿沟的存在令人感慨万千，也引人深思。而在社会、金钱、地位的种种差距背后，个人因素的力量同样不可小觑。</span></p><p><br></p><p><span style="font-size: 16px;">而我们能做的，就是在看完他人的故事后拷问自己有哪些做得不够？有哪些值得借鉴？跨越贫富不会那么容易，但在成为更好自己的道路上，永远有修炼与改进的余地。</span></p></section></section></section><p><br></p></section><section class="_editor"><p><span style="font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">版权归精英说所有，精英说是全球精英、留学生的聚集地。每日发布海内外前沿资讯，这里有留学新知、精英故事及美国街头访问，全方位为你展现真实的海外生活。欢迎大家关注精英说（ID: elitestalk）。</span><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);"><span style="font-size: 14px;">图片<span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;line-height: 26px;text-align: 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