中国社会的40个潜规则，不懂真的没法混！
<div class="_3w6P6 _2we4H imgInArticle" style="margin: 21.3333px -14.2222px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><div class=" bJSEN _3cqcG _3DIO- " style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; padding-bottom: 332.575px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 12px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; position: relative; line-height: 16px; height: 0px;"><img src="https://zxpic.imtt.qq.com/zxpic_imtt/2019/09/13/0840/originalimage/084428_253562566_1_557_325.jpg?" style="text-align: center; border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: bottom; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); border-radius: inherit; position: absolute; width: 570px; height: 332.575px; top: 0px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%;"></div></div><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">1、关系越好的，往往是最爱损你的</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">和他们说话时，你总是能自动屏蔽那些不爱听的。你的毛病他们永远比你更清楚。碰到你以前喜欢过的人，他们总是特别激动地喊你快看快看。有了小秘密，总是第一个想跟他们分享。其实最关心你的，永远是那个最爱打击你的。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">2、越害怕的事情越容易发生</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">口袋装着刚买的手机，在公车上生怕被盗，每隔一段时间就去查看手机是否还在。这一举动引起了小偷的注意，最终手机被偷走。就因为害怕发生，所以会非常在意，注意力越集中，就越容易犯错误。这就是着名的墨菲定理。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">3、心里不开心，动笔写下来</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">这是个漂亮的疏通方法。因为“写”这个动作，本身具有觉察、及统整思绪的功用。“写”，能将情绪能量从虚无的“下意识”，提升到“意识”的层次，也就是说，由原先感觉“我心中波涛汹涌”到“我知道怎么回事了”，焦虑下降，也就启动情绪疗愈。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">4、炫耀源于内心的不自信</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学上认为，“爱向别人炫”是一种内心需要被关注被肯定的表现，很可能是因为某种东西自己不常有，一旦拥有，希望藉以外界的羡慕来建立自信。不向别人晒自己的幸福会憋死你么？如果会，好问问为什么。记住：生活不是演戏，自己精彩就好！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">5、女人爱叨叨</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学研究显示：男人一天平均说2000个词（远古时男人狩猎养成的习惯），女人一天要说7000个词（远古时女人采摘蔬果养成的习惯）。工作一天回家，老公的那2000个词在公司就用完了，回到家就想着休息休息；而老婆还有5000个词没说呢，回到家总要把一天的词说完才能睡吧！然后很多杯具就这样产生了！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">6、悲伤时的眼泪含有害物质，强忍等同自杀</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">人悲伤时掉出眼泪中，蛋白质含量很高。这种蛋白质是由于精神压抑而产生的有害物质，压抑物质积聚于体内，对健康不利。专家研究发现，眼泪可以缓解人的压抑。哭吧哭吧，不是罪！</span></p><div class="_3w6P6 _2we4H imgInArticle" style="margin: 21.3333px -14.2222px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><div class=" bJSEN _3cqcG _3DIO- " style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; padding-bottom: 332.653px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 12px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; position: relative; line-height: 16px; height: 0px;"><img src="https://zxpic.imtt.qq.com/zxpic_imtt/2019/09/13/0840/originalimage/084428_253562566_2_598_349.jpg?" style="border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: bottom; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); border-radius: inherit; position: absolute; width: 570px; height: 332.653px; top: 0px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%;"></div></div><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">7、回复短信的速度</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">一个人喜欢你的程度，和他回你短信消息的速度，一般成正比。如果你的另一半回你消息越来越慢，恭喜你你基本已经被取代了，准确率超高！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">8、你怕麻烦别人吗？</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">其实这并不好！相比那些被你帮助过的人，那些曾经帮助过你的人会更愿意再帮你一次。换句话说——让别人喜欢你的最好方法不是去帮助他们，而是让他们来帮助你。如果想得到别人的好感，主动开口是没坏处的。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">9、改变心态</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">把你所有的不幸总结成一句话，然后问问自己：“3年后，这对你还重要吗？”</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">10、两性心理</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">男人主动吻女人是突发事件，女人主动吻男人是预谋事件。法国《女性》杂志最新研究发现，在潜意识里，每个女人都希望被自己爱的男人拽住，摁在墙上强吻，这会给她们带来更多快感。专家分析，大多数女性都将接吻视为亲密关系中不可或缺的一部分，是渴望体验到被重视，被需要的感觉。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">11、管理心理学</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">一个值8000元的人，就别讨价还价只愿付他7500元。即使省下了500块，实际上却凉了他的心，一有更好的机会，人家拔脚就走。相反，痛痛快快付他10000元，他会拿出两倍的能耐为你卖命干。记住，宁可花两个人的钱去招一个好人，也不要用一个人的钱去招两个差人。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">12、食指长文科好，无名指长数学好</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">英国巴斯大学量度过七十五名七岁小童的右手手指长度，发现“手指比例”无名指较长的小童，数学成绩较好。食指较长的小童，英文成绩较出色。同样计算方法亦可用在成年男女上，成年女性“手指比例”通常是一，即食指及无名指长度相等，成年男性则多是无名指较长。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">13、高智商男性对伴侣更忠诚</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">进化学专家金泽智称，对伴侣比较忠诚的男性平均智商水平103，而不忠诚的男性平均智商为97。越是智商高的男性，越珍惜两性关系的专一性。以后就可以这样说对方了，你丫要是不忠，你丫就是弱智！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">14、关于哭泣</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">88.8%人哭后情绪能得到改善，只有8.4%的人哭后感觉更糟；70%的人哭泣时不会躲着他人；77%的哭泣是在家里发生的；什么时间比较容易哭泣？39%的哭泣发生在晚上，下午6点到晚上8点，是最容易掉眼泪的时间。</span></p><div class="_3w6P6 _2we4H imgInArticle" style="margin: 21.3333px -14.2222px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><div class=" bJSEN _3cqcG _3DIO- " style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; padding-bottom: 354.067px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 12px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); background-color: transparent; position: relative; line-height: 16px; height: 0px;"><img src="https://zxpic.imtt.qq.com/zxpic_imtt/2019/09/13/0840/originalimage/084428_253562566_3_491_305.jpg?" style="border: 0px; outline: 0px; vertical-align: bottom; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); border-radius: inherit; position: absolute; width: 570px; height: 354.067px; top: 0px; left: 0px; max-width: 100%;"></div></div><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">15、男女的差异</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">两个男人追一个女人，用情浅的那个先放弃；两个女人追一个男人，用情深的那个先放弃。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">16、国内教育5大误区</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①过高的期望，带来孩子的无望；②过分的溺爱，带来孩子的无情；③过频的干预，带来孩子的无奈；④过度的保护，带来孩子的无能；⑤过多的指责，带来孩子的无措。自然是孩子的天性，自由是孩子的本性，扼杀天性和本性，就是扼杀成长的活力和动力，如此教育不可能培养出创造性人才。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">17、睡不好会发胖</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">睡眠不足，容易发胖的。每天睡5～6小时的人，平均比每天睡7—8小时的人重6—8磅。当正常睡眠时间被剥夺时，身体会产生大量的抗压激素，以减缓新陈代谢的速度，同时第二天的食欲也会增强。如果早晨必须7点起床，前天晚上最好在11点左右睡。睡觉前可以泡个热水澡，或读本小说。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">18、丈夫性格能改变妻子容貌</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学研究发现：妻子的容颜，与丈夫的性格和他对妻子的态度紧密相关。心胸宽广，不轻易发脾气的丈夫能够包容迁就妻子，使妻子享受充分的自由。有这样的丈夫，妻子会皮肤光滑细腻，不容易长暗疮和色斑，也不容易衰老，常常容光焕发。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">19、从背后主动拥抱对方</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学认为，从背后主动拥抱对方代表一种保护，表示拥抱者愿意主动给予被拥抱者爱与关怀。所以采用这种睡姿，就代表这个人愿意给你爱的承诺，这个人也会从这种主动呵护和疼爱中感到幸福。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">20、幽灵震动综合症</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">总感觉手机震动（响了），废了半天劲掏出来，却发现什么情况也没有。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">21、利用潜意识的力量</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">每天至少花10分钟在早上起床前，在睡觉前10分钟做想象，因为这两个时间段是输入潜意识的最好时段。所以如果你渴望成功、爱情、婚姻等等，请在这两个时段尽情想象吧！你的潜意识渐渐让你通过想象达致产生信心，从而引领你得到你想要的。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">22、逆反心理</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学家费尼·贝克做过这样一个实验：在男洗手间里挂上禁止涂鸦的牌子。其中一块警告：“严禁胡乱涂写”。另一块以相对柔和的语气声明：“请不要胡乱涂写”。然后调查挂牌子的洗手间里被涂写的数量。结果挂“严禁胡乱涂写”牌子的洗手间，被涂写的情况更加严重。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">23、如何认识你自己</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">人一定要想清3个问题：第一你有什么，第二你要什么，第三你能放弃什么。对于多数人而言：有什么，很容易评价自己的现状；要什么，内心也有明确的想法；最难的是，不知道或不敢放弃什么——这点恰能决定你想要的东西能否真正实现，没有人可以不放弃就得到一切。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">24、撒谎的孩子有出息</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">国外研究发现，50%三岁孩童会说谎，四岁会骗人的占90%，12岁的儿童几乎都会撒谎。孩子撒谎，其实是认知发展的标志。认知功能发展越健全的孩子，说谎技巧就越高明，因为他们有办法圆谎。孩子撒谎有可能是早慧的体现，这些人，成大以后更可能成为领袖人物。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">25、将快乐传递</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">英国医学杂志发表的一篇研究显示：快乐情绪的影响，可远达三层外的人际关系。认识快乐的人，会让你变快乐的几率增加15.3%，认识有快乐朋友的朋友，增加9.8%。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">26、深夜来临的时候，是一个人心灵最脆弱的时候，也是思念最疯狂的时候</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">当你牵挂一个人时，你就会想他是不是也在牵挂你。由于喜欢才牵挂，由于牵挂而忧伤。实在一个人并不孤单，想念一个人的时候才是真正的孤单。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">27、夫妻血型搭配</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①平等型：A男-A女，O男-O女，AB男-AB女，B男-B女；</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">②恩爱型：O男-A女，B男-O女，A男-AB女，AB男-B女；</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">③管理型：A男-O女，O男-B女，AB男-A女，B男-AB女；</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">④互补型：O男-AB女，AB男-O女，B男-A女，A男-B女。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">28、怀疑自己答错了，改不改答案？</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">做完答卷，检查的时候发现两个答案不知道选哪个，这时候该不该改答案？调查显示：55%的人认为改答案会损害成绩，只有15.5%认为会改善；但实际的情况是：58%把答案改对了，只有20%把对改错了，还有22%把错的改错了。因此，下碰到这种情况：改！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">29、男人为何不喜欢敞开心扉</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学家发现：谈论伴侣间的问题，会让男人非常不舒服。这是因为，当女人列举出两人之间的种种问题，男人首先体验到的是强烈的羞愧感，一种不能胜任伴侣关系的挫败感。他会无意识地去反抗由此带来的痛苦，用“回避”等方式保护自尊心。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">30、8.2秒陷入爱河</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">科学家认为，男人与女人第一次见面，关注持续的时间决定了两人是否能相爱。如果一个男人在第一次见面时，关注女人的时间超过8.2秒，那么他就已经不止被吸引了，而是很可能已经陷入爱河。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">31、爱情不是1+1=2，而是0.5+0.5=1</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">两人各削去一半自己的个性和缺点，然后凑合在一起才完整。如果没有相互的忍让和包容，最终两个人很难成为一体。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">32、这样的心理调节你做的到吗？</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①把看不顺的人看顺；②把看不起的人看起；③把不想做的事做好；④把想不通的事想通；⑤把快骂出的话收回；⑥把咽不下气的咽下；⑦把想放纵的心收住。其实你不需每时每刻这样做，但这样多做几回，你就会：①情商高了；②职位升了；③工资涨了；④朋友多了。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">33、七种梦境可能预示疾病</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①梦到有人敲打你的头：与脑部神经系统有关；②梦中听到怪响：与听觉中枢有关；③梦到气管被卡住窒息：与呼吸系统有关；④梦中被追逐：与心脏供血有关；⑤梦中走路不稳：与心绞痛有关；⑥梦到从高处坠落：与心脏病有关；⑦梦到水的场景：与肝胆肾脏有关。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">34、贝勃规律</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">原本1块的报纸变成了10元一份，你定会感到无法接受；相比较而言，原本5000元的电脑涨了50元，你一定不会有这么大的反应。贝勃规律表明，当人经历强烈的刺激后，之后施予的刺激对他来说也就变得微不足道了。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">35、其实人生只有900个月！</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">事实上，你可以画一个30×30的表格，一张A4纸就够了。每过一个月，就在一个格子里打钩。你全部的人生就在这张纸上。你会因此有一个清晰的概念：你的人生将是如何度过的？</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">36、胡闹有时候是一种依赖</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">心理学上说，人们大多数只对有安全度的人发脾气因为在那个安全度之内。你潜意识知道对方不会离开你。胡闹有时候是一种依赖。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">37、恋人矛盾应对策略</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①不要凡事分出对错，先换位思考，体察对方的潜在动机，相互理解。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">②平时保持适当的心理距离，靠得太近会审美疲劳。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">③别习惯相互抱怨并形成消极定式，尝试在嬉笑打闹中解决问题。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">④宽容为上。我们都不是圣人，没必要为对方的一点行为举止过分挑剔。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">⑤尊重对方，给对方爱你的理由。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">38、一流女人的八大特征</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">①有大女人素质，有小女人情怀；②大事清楚，小事糊涂；③自强自立；④能温柔似水，也能坚强如钢；⑤喜欢孩子；⑥上得厅堂，入得厨房；⑦爱美，会美；⑧拥有浪漫情怀。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">39、男生和女生分别有6种基本的爱情需求</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">男生需要的爱的形式：信任、接受、感激、赞美、认可、鼓励；</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">女生需要的爱的形式：关心、理解、尊重、忠诚、体贴，安慰。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">40、男女心理</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">如果某个男人主动替你拎包，把你放在道路的里边走，主动为你拉椅子，不要因此而感激涕零。这只能说明他之前有无数个女朋友教过他这一点。而能让他记住的女人，永远是改变了他的那个女人，而不是你。所以，越是细节完美的男人，对女人而言越是挑战。</span></p><p style="margin-top: 17.7778px; outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; font-size: 16px; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); position: relative; color: rgb(36, 36, 36); font-family: "Helvetica Neue", Roboto, "microsoft yahei"; text-align: justify; background-color: rgb(250, 250, 250);"><span style="outline: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; -webkit-tap-highlight-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0);">（图文来自网络，如有侵权请联系删除） </span></p><p></p>
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