最牛逼的心理学家是如何看待人生的
<section class="xmteditor" style="display:none;" data-tools="新媒体管家" data-label="powered by xmt.cn"></section><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.6;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4位心理学大师对人生各种问题的看法，句句经典！</span></span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.6;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></span></p><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 1.12em;font-weight: bold;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 28px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1.西格蒙德·弗洛伊德</span></p></section><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">Sigmund Freud</span></p><section style="margin-top: 0.5em;margin-bottom: 0.5em;max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 25.6px;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 1em;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> <img class="" data-ratio="1.1796875" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FyZbsJ5oDCDTt0xAqgdiby5JcFOYFlaia69lxWnC4ibNvm7dYkrEibYw4y4xaZ13XBlEzkiaHvv1C3eHwooibkn6I91Mg%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="640" style="border-radius: 50%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176281345047596.jpeg" width="16"></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: justify;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">这个人不用小编多介绍吧。</span></span></p></section><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 没有所谓<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">玩笑</strong></span>，所有的玩笑都有认真的成分。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 <strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">精神健康</span></strong>的人，总是努力地工作及爱人。只要能做到这两件事，其它的事就没有什么困难。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 没有<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">口误</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></strong></span>这回事，所有的口误都是潜意识真实的流露。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 人生有两大<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">悲剧</span></strong>：一个是没有得到你心爱的东西；另一个是得到了你心爱的东西。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">人生有两大<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">快乐</span></strong>：一个是没有得到你心爱的东西，于是可以寻求和创造；另一个是得到了你心爱的东西，于是可以去品味和体验。 </span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 没有一个没有<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">理智</span></strong>的人，能够接受理智。</span></p><p style="margin: 0em 2em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 20.48px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2.阿尔弗雷德•阿德勒</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">Alfred Adler</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.980544747081712" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FyZbsJ5oDCDTt0xAqgdiby5JcFOYFlaia69VVd6TehAV02E8Y81WFjrlbHlevrqxu934H6Vrm2BmM7WLYgXyqRoGA%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="514" style="border-radius: 50%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176460149028586.jpg" width="16"></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><em style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></em></strong></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">奥地利精神病学家。</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">个体心理学的创始人，人本主义心理学先驱，现代自我心理学之父。曾追随弗洛伊德探讨神经症问题，但也是精神分析学派内部第一个反对弗洛伊德的人。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 对别人</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不感兴趣</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">的人，他一生中遇到的困难最多，对别人的伤害也最大。所有人类的失败，都出于这种人。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 应付生活中各种问题的<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">勇气</span></strong>，能说明一个人如何定义生活的意义。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">我们每个人都有不同程度的<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自卑感</span></strong>，因为我们都想让自己更优秀，让自己过更好的生活。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 当一个人遇到无法解决的问题却深信自己能够解决时就会表现出</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自卑情节</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 世界很<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">单纯</span></strong>，人生也一样。不是世界<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">复杂</strong></span>，而是你把世界变复杂了。<br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 没有一个人是住在</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">客观</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">的世界里， 我们都居住在一个各自赋予其意义的</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">主观</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">的世界。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3.卡尔·荣格 </span></strong><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">Carl Gustav Jung</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img data-ratio="1" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FyZbsJ5oDCDTt0xAqgdiby5JcFOYFlaia696NOjetYZkIMOFsAS9NwtVaAlNQy6ibCIDEaeaE0ibqVXSUdRewEqHcnA%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="400" style="border-radius: 50%;line-height: 25.6px;height: 16em !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 16em !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471176623379047753.jpg" width="16"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">瑞士心理学家。1907年开始与弗洛伊德合作，发展及推广精神分析学说长达6年之久，之后与弗洛伊德理念不和，分道扬镳，创立了荣格人格分析心理学理论。他的理论和思想至今仍对心理学研究产生深远影响。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 一个人毕其一生的努力，就是在整合他自童年时代起就已形成的</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">性格</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">。</span></span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 </span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">孤独</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">并不是来自身边无人。感到孤独的真正原因是因为一个人无法与他人交流对其最要紧的感受。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 要对这残缺的世界保持</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">耐性</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">，也别高估自己的完美。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 对最强烈</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">冲突</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">的克服，使我们获得一种稳定超然的安全与宁静感。要获得有益而持久的心理安全与宁静，所需要的正是这种强烈</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">冲突</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">的大爆发。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 每件促使我们注意到他人的事，都能使我们更好地</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">理解</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自己。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">6 一年中的夜晚与白天数量相同、持续时间一样长。即使快乐的生活也有其阴暗笔触，没有“悲哀”提供平衡，“愉快”一词就会失去意义。耐心镇静地</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">接受</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">世事变迁，是最好的处事之道。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">7 创造不是来自智力，而是来自源于内在需要的<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">游戏本能</span></strong>。创造性头脑与它所钟爱的对象玩耍。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">8 对于任何事务，要改变它就要先</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">接受</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">它。谴责不会解放，而只会压迫。</span><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">9 我们看待事物的</span><strong style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">方式</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">、而不是事物本身如何，决定着一切。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;white-space: pre-wrap;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 18px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4.艾瑞克·弗洛姆 </span></strong></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">Erich Fromm</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"></p><p style="max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><br></p><section style="max-width: 100%;text-align: center;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);letter-spacing: 1px;font-size: 1.12em;font-weight: bold;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;line-height: 1.75em;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><img class="" data-ratio="0.9904306220095693" src="https://lymx.com.cn/source/plugin/csdn123_news/display_picture.php?url=https%3A%2F%2Fmmbiz.qpic.cn%2Fmmbiz_jpg%2FyZbsJ5oDCDTt0xAqgdiby5JcFOYFlaia69N9TPXUoic21ySXpcJibtx6od0gu3RQP5icbCsNqCJSwCdejXbFfiaBI3nA%2F640%3Fwx_fmt%3Djpeg" data-type="jpeg" data-w="209" style="background-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);border-width: 1px;border-style: solid;border-color: rgb(238, 237, 235);background-size: 22px;background-position: center center;background-repeat: no-repeat;border-radius: 50%;line-height: 1.75;font-size: 16px;height: 207px !important;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;width: 209px !important;" title="http://7xo6kd.com1.z0.glb.clouddn.com/upload-ueditor-image-20160814-1471175333021046122.jpg" width="auto"></p></section><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;text-align: left;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);line-height: 1.75;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">美籍德国犹太人。人本主义哲学家和精神分析心理学家。毕生致力修改弗洛伊德的精神分析学说，以切合西方人在两次世界大战后的精神处境。他的精神分析学说对世界有影响力。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">1 每天安静地坐十五分钟，倾听你的气息，</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">感觉</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">它，感觉你自己，并且试着什么都不想。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">2 爱情与<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">成熟度</span></strong>无关。如果不努力发展自己的<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">全部人格</strong></span>，那么每种爱的努力都会失败；如果没有爱他人的能力，如果不能真正谦恭地、勇敢地、真诚地和有纪律地爱他人，那么人们，在自己的爱情生活中也永远得不到<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">满足</strong></span>。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">3 如果我爱他人，我应该感到和他一致，而且<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">接受</strong></span>他本来的面目。而不是要求他成为我希望的样子，以便使我能把他当作使用的对象</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">4 最重要的是学会一个人<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">单独</span></strong>地待着，而且不看书、不听广播、不抽烟、不喝酒。有没有集中的能力表现在能不能</span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">单独</strong></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">地待着，而这种能力又是学会爱的一个条件。</span></span><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">正因为我们不能<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自力更生</strong></span>，所以只能把自己同另一个人连在一起，这个人也许就是我生命的拯救者，但是这种关系同爱无关。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">5 爱首先不是同一个特定的人的关系；它是一种态度，一种<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">性格倾向</span></strong>。这种态度、性格倾向决定了一个人同整个世界的关系，而不是同一个“爱的对象”的关系。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">6 如果一个人只爱一个人，而对其他人漠不关心，他的爱就不是爱，而是一种<span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">共生性依恋</strong></span>或者是一种放大的<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">自我主义</span></strong>。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);font-size: 15px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">7 <span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(198, 43, 2);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">不成熟</strong></span>的爱是因为我需要你，所以我爱你。<strong style="max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;color: rgb(204, 0, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">成熟</span></strong>的爱是因为我爱你，所以我需要你。</span></p><p style="margin: 20px 1em;max-width: 100%;min-height: 1em;color: rgb(62, 62, 62);line-height: 1.75em;letter-spacing: 1px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%;text-indent: 2em;white-space: pre-wrap;line-height: 25.6px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%;font-size: 12px;box-sizing: border-box !important;word-wrap: break-word !important;">来源：壹心理精选（ID:yixinlijx)</span></strong></p><p><br></p>
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