曾国藩“相面术”：40个字，看透天下人
<div class="wx_rich_media_content" id="jsWxContainer"><h2 style="text-align: center; margin-bottom: 14px; font-size: 22px; max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box;line-height: 34px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;color: rgb(63, 63, 63);min-height: 0px;font-size: 16px;background-clip: border-box;background-position: 0% 0%;background-repeat: repeat;background-size: auto;border-width: 0px;border-style: none;border-color: rgb(63, 63, 63);bottom: auto;display: inline;left: auto;max-height: none;min-width: 0px;top: auto;z-index: auto;clear: none;zoom: 1.14286;font-family: 微软雅黑;width: 100%;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></h2><p style="text-align: center; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P</p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 0.54px; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">作者 | 儒风君 · 闻清</span></p><section data-role="outer" label="Powered by 135editor.com" style="max-width: 100%; font-family: -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", ";P<br><section data-role="paragraph" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">关于识人、用人，曾国藩有一个著名的论断：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">办事不外用人，用人必先知人。</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">意思是说，办事要学会如何用人，而用人要学会如何知人。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">关于如何知人，曾国藩有一套独特的法门，被许多人奉为“相面术”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这套“相面术”归纳起来，就是<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;">8</span>句话、<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;">40</span>个字：</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">邪正看眼鼻，真假看嘴唇，</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">功名看气概，富贵看精神，</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">主意看指爪，风波看脚筋，</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">若要看条理，全在语言中。</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">1</span></p></section></section></section><section style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">邪正看眼鼻</span></strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾国藩认为，一个人的邪与正，从眼睛和鼻子上就可以看出一二。如果眼斜鼻歪，此人必定心术不正。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">古代相书里说：“</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">七尺之躯不如一尺之头，一尺之头不如一寸之睛</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">。”明末清初文学家李渔也说：“</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">察心之邪正，莫妙于观眸子</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">。”</span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">眼睛是心灵的窗户。一个人品性如何，从他的眼神中就可窥见。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">倘若一个人习惯斜眼看人，或者与人交谈时眼神飘忽不定，不敢直视对方，往往是缺乏真诚。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="2" aria-describedby="tooltip311135" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">2</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">真假看嘴唇</span></strong></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个人是否实诚敦厚，嘴部的微妙变化就能折射出来。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">口为人体的主要出入器官，双唇醇厚者多道德彰良，忠实可靠。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">反之，则多为饶舌碎嘴、搬弄是非之人，不可与之深交。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">同样的，唇厚者，多为人豁达、外向热情；唇薄者，多能言善辩、虚与委蛇。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="3" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">3</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">功名看气概</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾国藩认为，一个人能不能取得功名，主要看这个人有没有气概。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">什么是气概？大抵就是一种气概，一群互不相识的人聚在一起，总有人能在短时间内成为众人关注的焦点。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一个有气概的人，很容易让周围的人为其折服。这样的人，自然也能一呼百应，想要成大事、取功名，也顺理成章。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span class="wxart_image" wx-style="display:inline-block;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;width: 100%;visibility: visible !important;height: auto;"></span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="4" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">4</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">富贵看精神</span></strong></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">生活中，有的人总是精神萎靡，愁容满面，我们形容这样的人“一脸苦相”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“一脸苦相”的人，很难大富大贵。反之，富贵之人，多精神昂扬、身宽体胖。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">富贵吉祥，不仅在于精神昂扬，更在于勤奋向上。一个人勤奋向上，必精神饱满，因而更有可能成就一番大业，获得富贵吉祥。</span></p><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="5" aria-describedby="tooltip779916" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">5</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">主意看指爪</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾国藩说：“</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">手心、手掌心当中纹络清晰而浅者，心定</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”，反之“</span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">手掌纹络浅而乱者，人心乱、心浮</span></strong><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”。</span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">所谓“心定”，就是内心有主意，遇事临危不乱、井井有条。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">曾国藩认为，一个人有没有主意，全看指爪。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">手指纤长、手掌醇厚者，多意志坚定、胸有成竹，因而能成就大业。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.544px;"></span><br></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="6" aria-describedby="tooltip709425" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">6</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-weight: bold; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">风波看脚筋</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人的一生，风波难免。有的人一生顺遂、无风无浪，有的人命途多舛、一波三折。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在曾国藩看来，一个人有无风波，主要看脚筋。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">脚筋粗壮者，多孔武有力，因而多闲不住，也就难免惹风波。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><section data-tools="135编辑器" data-id="89264" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="max-width: 100%; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><section style="margin-right: auto; margin-left: auto; max-width: 100%; width: 3em; height: 3em; color: rgb(255, 255, 255); font-size: 1em; line-height: 3em; display: inline-block; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-size: 100%; background-position: 0px center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><p style="max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span data-original-title="" title="" data-num="7" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">7</span></p></section></section></section><p style="margin-top: 10px; margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span><span style="max-width: 100%; color: rgb(150, 0, 0); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">若要看条理，全在语言中</span></strong></span></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">严格来讲，这两句不是“相面术”，但却被曾国藩视为用人、知人的重要方面。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">判断一个人做事是否有条理、思维是否清晰，全看他的语言表达。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">说话言简意赅，又能切中要害，说明这个人有章法、有条理。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">反之，语无伦次、答非所问，往往是思维混乱、没有条理的表现。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">儒风君说：</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 10px; margin-left: 10px; max-width: 100%; min-height: 1em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-size: 16px; color: rgb(89, 89, 89); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">古人讲“</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">相</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">由心生”，同样，一个人的面相也可以反射出其心性。曾国藩这套“相面术”，只有短短<span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: Calibri; box-sizing: border-box !important;">40</span>个字，但却涵盖了相貌、行动、言语等</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">多个方面，非常实用</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，且能与现代心理学的</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">许多</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">论</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">说</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">不谋而合。学会这</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">40个字</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">，</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">看透</span></strong><strong style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="max-width: 100%; font-family: 宋体; box-sizing: border-box !important;">天下人。</span></strong></span></p></section></section><section data-author="Wxeditor" style="max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box; text-align: center;"><br></section>转载声明：本文转载自「博研商学院」，搜索「izddba」即可关注，[<a target="_blank" href="https://mp.weixin.qq.com/s/QOW9uJ5CNeMtLgD74rTubQ">阅读原文</a>]。</div><p></p>
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